Posted by:
randygalbraith
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Date: February 25, 2018 04:20PM
Hi Backseater,
>>I've heard that many JWs have a sort of mild disdain or contempt for non-JWs;<<
As one of Jehovah's Witnesses we were friendly towards those outside the faith, always thinking that perhaps an opportunity would arise to "share the truth." However if a non-JW attempts to befriend a JW who is serious about their faith, they'll soon notice a sense of aloofness, unless of course, one gives an indication of interest in joining.
Not far from the mind of most JWs is Bible verses like James 4:4 which reads, "Adulteresses, do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever, therefore, wants to be a friend of the world is making himself an enemy of God." (NWT) It was no uncommon to hear phrases like "oh, but he is worldly" or "my worldly relatives." In the JW mindset the whole world is under the control of Satan (Rev 12:9) who is the "god of this system of things" (2 Cor 4:4).
Thus while JWs work and live among non-JWs, they generally keep themselves socially isolated. Refusing participation in common things like singing the national anthem, voting, celebrating common items like birthdays and Christmas further isolates the JW socially.
Although JWs have a unique theology, to them, it is entirely derived from the Bible. Study of the Bible using JWs publications was a paramount concern for the initial group. Details of prophetic patterns of types and anti-types filled their books. Thus it is ironic that the modern group has largely moved into a simplified lower-grade-level material. Given that JWs generally are not well educated and have often discouraged college and university education for their members this seems like a natural outcome.
I see many parallels between Mormons and JWs, having both got their start in America as new religious movements (1830s for Mormons and 1870s for JWs). It seems the mainline Mormon church has become more integrated into the community, whereas JWs continue to emphasize separation.
In any regards, I'll always be grateful for the Ex-Mormon community and sites like this, that allowed me, as a JW, to explore a similar faith and see why people left.
It has been 10 years since I left JWs with my wife and children. Some aspects of my JW life was enjoyable, friendships, etc, but I'm glad to have it past me now. When people ask what should I say to a JW who calls by, I simply recommend being kind, but don't accept their literature (you could download it, if you wanted that), because what is important is the person, not the religion.
Cheers,
-Randy