Posted by:
jessica
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Date: June 04, 2011 04:21PM
Hopefully this link works, if not search for a thread titled WWJD under my name:
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,205145,205145#msg-205145You are the little girl in the story who had been taught about these fictional characters instead of being parented by your mom and dad. It is really your mom/dad you will disappoint, not God, it is not Satan who will punish you but your mom/dad. There are NO consequences for leaving.
The church tries to make it seem like there are greater consequences for those who know the truth and leave compared to those who never knew. Does that make sense to you? Would God send you to outer darkness for rejecting the "gospel" and let a murderer who never heard the gospel get into the celestial kingdom just because you got baptized for him in the temple after he died? You are a good person, and your family will NOT be punished in the afterlife for it.
Your parents are good people, they meant well, they did the best they could and used religion to help raise you. There is nothing wrong with remembering fond memories or events with your family, you can appreciate them for who they are without being exactly like them. Mormonism will always be a part of your life because of your parents, it is your tribe so to speak. That doesn't make the church true.
SusieQ has some excellent advice:
"First, you are not responsible for other people's happiness. You can't live your life pleasing someone else.
Also, it helps if you change your World View. This is what I did. I decided to take God and Satan and religion in general out of the equation and look at the world as an individual human being doing what brought me the most happiness, joy and freedom.
That required that I take my power back and own it. That means that I stopped giving other people the power to tell me how to live, how to think, how to dress, what to read, what movies to see, how to spend my time, who I worked for, what days I worked, and on and on and on."