Posted by:
fallenangelblue
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Date: June 06, 2011 01:54PM
It has recently come to my attention that my 80+ year-old grandfather is STILL supporting all three of his children. My mother got divorced and had to get a job, but still can't manage to take care of herself and the small bills that she has to pay every month. She is constantly asking him for money and cars, even though she gets child support from her ex every month (for three kids, even though only one goes to her her now). My grandfather even paid off a $10K credit card for her several years ago. Uncle #1 has a degree but has never been able to get out of debt his whole life. He is still asking my grandfather for cars and money as well, while his wife is working trying to support the remaining 4 children that are at home. Uncle #2 (and his wife) have both lost their jobs, but refuse to leave Utah because it's "the promised land" and "the best place to raise kids," so that makes it even harder to find a job. The wife secretly asked my grandfather for money to help them. This isn't the first time. They almost lost their house last year and called asking him for money to help them.
Here's my thought: I wonder if they hadn't been paying tithing on every dime if they would even be in situations like this. Six kids and always in debt. Lost jobs but no savings. Divorced and no clue. Is this a result of bad church teachings or bad parenting? I was perfectly capable of supporting myself after my divorce when I was 25 years old. Of course I wasn't paying a church one cent from my check and I didn't have a thousand kids to support. It seems to me that if being LDS and paying tithing every month brings so many blessings, then none of these people would even have such issues. And why don't they see that?