Posted by:
MadameRadness
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Date: June 08, 2011 03:03AM
It's been a while since I posted last. Anywho, my ex husband is TBM, and while we have joint custody my young son does spend more time with my ex. He lives in a MUCH better school district than I do, which unfortunately also leads to an overwhelmingly Mormon upbringing.
My current husband and I had him for a long weekend recently, and we woke up on a Sunday morning and started getting around for church. While we ate breakfast, my son asked my husband "are we going to my daddy's church? Or to momma's FUN church?"
I shouldn't have been so pleased to hear it. I know, a little immature that I got such a smug feeling of satisfaction out of it. I know it's not particularly Christlike to think my church is "better' than any other. But man, it made me grin. For the record, I don't care what religion (if any) he grows up adhering to... and I don't trash talk tscc in front of him. I'd rather not throw him in the middle of my religious disagreements with my ex....I just keep my mouth shut when he's home at my place.
....but it does make me feel better that at 3 years old he already realizes that the Mormon children programs are boring as shit compared to most other youth organizations. I mean seriously, I had a calling in primary before. Total snoozefest. I know it didn't used to be like that. A lot of the older members talked about their days in primary and yw/ym. It sounded fun 20 years ago, now I think the leadership has sucked all the joy out of it. Sad, you would think that with their retention numbers suffering they would try to make tscc less boring.