Posted by:
Henry Bemis
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Date: September 10, 2018 11:38AM
Cheryl did “woman up” and resign. It did not stop the harassment.
COMMENT: When did she say that? Her definition of "resign" is established by this post, which implies that she has not formally resigned, but "resigned" only by her actions and conduct. If she has formally resigned, let's hear it from her.
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Other churches do not do this. I think that your history as a Mormon has blinded you to just how aberrant it is for an organization to harass those that leave. In normal society, it just isn’t done.
COMMENT: My history as a Mormon has not blinded me to anything, including moral outrage when it is appropriate. Obviously some organizations, churches or secular, take membership more seriously than others, that is not the point. Moreover, harassment should not be tolerated, and I have never said otherwise. However, I left the Church years ago, and have not ever been harassed. I do not know of any person who formally resigned who has been harassed, other than by disappointed family members. (A missionary randomly showing up at your door is not harassment based upon a prior membership.) I suspect Cheryl's "harassment" is tied to her continued formal membership, her insistence that she should not have to resign, and her penchant for confrontation.
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The whole resignation process had to be imposed by an outside court to allow Mormons to free themselves, because the Mormons refused to accept that anyone could resign and be free. That isn’t normal.
COMMENT: O.K. I agree with the Court. There needs to be a process of voluntary resignation. However, no Court has demanded that the Church "automatically" remove someone for lack of participation, or a verbal demand. Notice that the Court did NOT say that "membership" in an organization is something casual, insignificant, or informal. Quite the opposite, the Court's ruling showed that membership in an organization involved individual rights that encompassed the right to resign. Thus, the ruling supports formality in a resignation process!
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You are misrepresenting Cheryl’s experiences of leaving Mormonism and you are trying to legitimize and normalize a resignation process that only exists because Mormonism is so aberrant that the process had to be imposed on them from a court, something the courts didn’t have to do for Catholics, Episcopalians, etc.
COMMENT: I take it you also have not resigned? What are *you* afraid of? You cannot delegitimize an organization by denying the reasonableness of a resignation process that requires only a letter of such intent. That is absurd. Again, the fact that the Courts imposed a voluntary process of resignation demonstrates that "membership" is legitimized by such a process. If membership was not important, and legally meaningful, there would be no need to impose a resignation process.
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When you tell most people that you you are no longer interested, they say okay and leave you alone. That is the normal standard of behavior.
COMMENT: The normal standard of behavior for a person who discovers that the organization he or she belongs to, and voluntarily joined, is false and immoral is to resign from that organization. That is the reason the Court's imposed a process to effectuate such resignation. Someone who has a very easy way to remove themselves from such an association, but continues to be a "member" because of some pseudo argument based upon a refusal to submit to authority is kidding themselves about their motives.
Look, there are exMormons on this Board who have lost everything because of their moral courage to formally resign from Mormonism and accept the consequences. So, I am not impressed by someone who makes ridiculous arguments, like those in this post, most likely to avoid the adverse consequences that might result if they act in accordance with their conscience. Apparently, for some "harassment" is a lesser personal "evil" than confronting friends and family members with the fact of resignation. Moreover, they get to claim "harassment" every time a Mormon shows up at their door, with the added bonus of being mean-spirited and confrontational.