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Date: September 22, 2010 03:53PM
From the Wikipedia entry:
"Life After Life is a 1975 book written by psychiatrist Raymond Moody. It is a report on a qualitative study in which Moody interviewed 150 people who had undergone near-death experiences (NDEs). The book presents the author's composite account of what it is like to die. On the basis of his collection of cases, Moody identified a common set of elements in NDEs:
* (a) an overwhelming feeling of peace and well-being, including freedom from pain.
* (b) the impression of being located outside one's physical body.
* (c) floating or drifting through darkness, sometimes described as a tunnel.
* (d) becoming aware of a golden light.
* (e) encountering and perhaps communicating with a "being of light".
* (f) having a rapid succession of visual images of one's past.
* (g) experiencing another world of much beauty.
Life After Life sold more than 13 million copies, was translated into a dozen foreign languages and became an international best seller, which made the subject of NDEs popular and opened the way for many other studies.
Moody wrote a second book, Reflections on Life After Life (ISBN 0817714233), in 1977."
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life_After_Life)
Amazon.com has a publisher's description about the book online at
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life_After_LifeRegarding your child, it's natural for a 5-year-old to be worried about death. In a child's mind, if she/he can die, then Mommy and Daddy can die. And that would be painful. Most people, including children, want to avoid pain (masochists are one exception).
Concerning death, you could point out to your daughter that if no one ever died, the world would be so crowded with tens of billions of people, as well as animals, marine life, plants, insects, etc. that nobody would be able to move. The shopping mall and stores, the streets - everywhere would be jam-packed with people. Houses would have to be much smaller because everyone would need to live in a home, but nobody would die (and make space by dying). Would she like having to live in a much smaller bedroom and not having room outdoors to run and play because it would be filled with all the people who had never died but had lived forever? You can use her budding reason to help your daughter see that dying is a good thing, as natural a part of life as being born.
I imagine that there are children's books on the subject of death that you might want to review (check w/ your local library or search online).
In summary, no one can authoritatively say what happens after death. Is there some sort of continuation of awareness/consciousness after the physical body shuts down? According to people who have experienced an NDE - yes. Science has not determined what the origin of awareness/consciousness is, or how it came into being in our universe that began some 13.7 billion years ago. Has it always existed? Is it 'eternal'?
It's good to reflect on such questions, but in the final analysis, we're alive and we might as well enjoy life - as long as it lasts - as much as possible, IMO.