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Jakes sister -breaking free
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Date: June 17, 2011 09:09PM
So today I had lunch with a forever friend. She's tbm, bic, like i am or was. To make things easier for both of us I said we can talk about what's happening with me more. It's ok.
She wanted to know what happened and why? I told her who knows. I just couldn't do it any more. Just couldn't pretend that everything was perfect and I loved everything about the church. It stopped working for me. O was never good enough, never did enough. Told her my shrink called it a mormon meltdown. It's too much.
She didn't have a hard time understanding that but said I made it look so easy. Ha it wasn't. She's in the same sinking ship I was.
She asked if I still believed in the doctrine. I answered honestly, I don't know what to believe now. What I've read says the church is not true. That the history had been whitewashed. I told her honestly I'm trying to figure it all out. That it'll take awhile and meantime Iwon't nd going to church and no callings. Nothing at all.
She wasn't upset put even surprised. She said I know what you mean. I was surprised. And asked her about what? Her answer all of it. We decided to talk about next week. Then we enjoyed our lunch.
She didn't and said she won't ditch me and will try to understand what's going on. Another surprise. She's like I was great mom, good wife, strong church member. She's not happy, but then what is happy? We're all missing something.
So, another day is almost over. I made it through another day and I smiled at people and no surprise most didn't smile back. That's alright. Most people here don't smile back anyway, their loss.