Date: April 29, 2019 06:26PM
You have missed what is really going on. but you get some credit (from me) for trying to address the issue, enjoy that credit because it is probably all that you will get.
Certain people on here can say all kinds of stupid things, sex related and other stuff. It is basically NOT allowed to question the stupid stuff they say. They are allowed to insult anyone who does not go along with what they say. They are allowed to endlessly insult anyone who does manage in some way to question what they have said. Their ability to act so freely is OBVIOUSLY not based on content. It is based on favoritism. IE They are chummy with some of the administrators.
Several years ago, there was an especially privileged and nasty and prolific duo on this board. They must have gotten bored with this board, and then chose to do something else. They have not been around for a while. They were certainly impressed with them selves, then. At the time, they could endlessly dish out a lot of low quality commentary .....which is actually (QUITE) acceptable, if not necessarily desirable ... for others.
However, they also felt completely entitled to skeptically/ critically review and question things that others had said and they did so to a large extent, which is something else completely different beyond the previously mentioned deal of just stating your own feelings and letting that ride. Their (nasty) reviews were also typically done with their same low / groundless "quality". even though they were tremendously impressed with what they had said. the tiniest bit of actual analytics could have helped their cause, but they had nothing in that regard.
Worst of all, and most problematic, they could NOT and would not tolerate much of any critical response to their horrendously wide swath of actions, especially their very gratuitous and baseless assertions, compound especially those aimed at others.
At one time, as one part of the duo expressed his very MORmON style sentiment, I responded with the suggestion that given what he had said, it would be better for him to return to MORmON church rather than to be here. Normally I refrain from giving advice, but it this instance it was entirely appropriate and quite well suited to the situation. All Hell broke out over my suggestion. And the administration's (who ever it really was in admin) favor for him and then both of them, heavily worked to his/ their benefit, while heavily working against me.
To clarify, I do not have an agenda to pull people away from THE (MORmON) church. In contrast, Perhaps....apparently (Obviously) RFM does. My agenda is to display MORmONISM as retarded with facts, and then to let people follow their own path accordingly. As far as I am concerned, MORmON church is a great place for real MORmONS to be, especially as I will NOT be there. As well, I firmly believe that anyone who can be "loved out" can be loved right back in, and I do NOT want to be around such fantasy based and feeling based people.
Later on, the same person that I had responded to on this issue then posted again, this particular time he stated his deep personal longings and fondness for the good old days of MORmON fellowship and the great sustaining fervor of believing that was at good old MORmON meetings. "IF ONLY, It would have been true! ...I wish it was true" He said. and then mentioned his fondness and longing for that MORmON arrangement as it had worked for him.
......sounds like a real MORmON at heart to me !!!! Sounds like the foundations of MORmON testimony are STILL in place !!!!
MORmONISM runs on fantasy and pretension anyway, so IF that fantasy and pretending was "really" that great (for any one person), then do NOT pretend be an ex MORmON, IF that person is going to pretend then pretend that MORmONISM is true !!!! WHich is what I have said all along, about anyone. I am not going to be friends with that delusion person either!!!
I noted and copied that mentioned post, along with what I had previously said, and subsequent on goings which was all forwarded to admin.
After the documentation, there was NO concession to me from admin. There was NO apology from admin to me. even though on other occasions Admin had demanded that I contact them and do other things to suit them ......and their pals, as well as some one in Admin deleting extensive amounts of my posts .....that nailed their pals to the wall, often time while snotty posts from their pals remained.
There was No concession to me on the issue even as the matter went full circle and ended up in the way that I had asserted as the sentiments that I had stated were then found to explicitly flow from the mouth of the very person who had taken so much offense from the same sentiment as it came from some one else, and then the entire recaptured scenario was presented back to admin in their own black and white writing from off of the board.
....but even with out concession or admission from admin, I still know how some one in admin had acted anyway!!!!!
and that person in admin SHOULD have done better.
ANd there was no further chance to shove what the poster had said right back into his snotty face where it really REALLY belonged. AFTER ALL, HE HAD SAID IT !!! in one form or another, and I just acknowledged what he had really said. HOWEVER, when he said such things it was *somehow* OK and just peachy !!!! but when I had said he should just go back to church to suit himself, and that he still sounded so much like a MORmON, so much like he had spoken, *somehow* THAT was NOT OK.
at least Admin does not tell you that you have to post here or you will go to Hell !!