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Date: July 17, 2019 06:18PM
Here's what happened in my family.
My two older brothers (10 and 12 years older) and I all lived in different states, and we talked on the phone twice a week. I would travel back and forth to see each other every 6 months or so. The second-oldest never married, and when he got cancer, he designated the oldest brother as his Trustee and Executor for his Will. He discussed his will with me, and decided to leave half to me and half to our oldest brother. He talked about this often, and I kept changing the subject, because thinking about death was depressing. If my oldest brother or I were to die before he did, then our children would inherit our half. On my advice, he hired an attorney help with the Will, and it was notarized and legal.
It turned out that my oldest brother died of cancer, 3 weeks before my second-oldest brother. When second-oldest was dying in the hospital, he called me many times a day, and I said comforting words--but mainly he wanted to do the talking. He was intelligent and lucid, but a few times he was incoherent. I was very ill at the time, too, and unable to travel to go see him.
Four days before my brother's death, Nephew drew up a new Will, and had my brother sign it. My brother did not know what he was signing, because he could not read normal print, at all. The fake will was in unusually small print, and three short paragraphs. My brother told me that he had signed a document that would leave $15,000 to his best friend and close neighbor, who had been there to drive him to and from his doctor and chemotherapy appointments, and his wife had taken dinners to him--they deserved it. That was just the first paragraph.
The second paragraph of the fake will stated that all other previous Wills were null and void. Nephew was to be the Trustee, and the Executor of the Will, and all of my brother's estate, properties and possessions were to go to Nephew as the Sole Beneficiary.
My nephew was a known con-man, who had scammed my father and my uncle out of many thousands of dollars to back a business that never existed, and who had tried to steal from the family business, and never had a real job in his life, and was now living off of his dead father's money. He flew to where my brother lived, and moved into his condo (brother was in the hospital), and made a big media/facebook/e-mail splash that he had been "taking care of" my brother. In reality, he had never even visited my brother. My brother knew about Nephew's cons, but was a pushover, and thought Nephew was nice to drive all that way to see him. He gave Nephew the key to his condo.
Pooped, when you mentioned your sister's manipulation of Facebook and her ward friends, this reminded me of my nephew. I wonder if she is building an arsenal of credibility, and a backing of friends, to take her side in a fight for your mother's estate. She's obviously conning these people into believing she's a good person. Just like my nephew, who had a history of stealing, but was in the Mormon bishopric.
Nephew took over my brother's expensive condo, and said that my brother's best friend.who spoke at the funeral could not stay there, and that if I were able to come, I couldn't stay there, either. While my brother was still alive, Nephew had his son take my brother's car, fully loaded with family treasures, and my brother's very expensive antique collection. Though some of us had copies of the original legal Will, the original was never found. All of the papers, along with precious family photos, and my parents' pictures of my childhood, had vanished.
Nephew conned the people in my brother's ward, and wielded his priesthood bishopric power, and gave a flowery Mormon plan-of-salvation speech. No one knew that he had been released of his bishopric position, because of several con's he had tried with members of his own ward at home.
All this made me even sicker. Nephew's e-mails were nasty and arrogant. He sold the condo within a week. I sued the Nephew, thinking that there was little I could do, long distance. We hired local attorneys, and the notaries and witness couldn't be tracked down, bla-bla. Turns out that it is ILLEGAL in that state for the Executor and Beneficiary to be the same person! I won the lawsuit, and retrieved almost all of my share. Nephew told everyone that HE WON. My family and I will have nothing to do with the crook, but he behaves as though he is a holy Mormon, and acts like I'm the bad guy.
Just--beware. Make sure everything doubly air-tight, and legal. Give copies of your mother's Will to everyone who is willing to keep one in their files. You can add a clause in your mother's will that says: "Anyone who challenges this Will or attempts to make any changes will be immediately dis-inherited."