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schrodingerscat
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Date: November 10, 2019 05:50PM
We had 4 kids, who are now all, mostly, independent adults, thankfully, but it took us 25years to get here. It shouldn't take that long!
I was having dinner with my Sister, who's Son (nephew) is turning 18 soon. His Dad (BiL) was telling me when he turned 18 his Dad told him, pack your shit and get out. I'm done raising you. Go on, git.
Ky Sister said, "Our son turns 18 in 3mo. Are you going to tell him the same thing? (Nephew is sitting with us)
Dad says, "No. I'm just telling you what my Dad told me. And Im glad he did, because I got to go be free and be a man."
I said, "I don't know what's so different now compared to when we were growing up."
Sister, who owns 7 businesses, is a CPA, MBA, working on a PhD, says, "School is a lot more expensive. You cant just put yourself through college working a summer job like we did., for one."
I said something she didn't like much, "Why even go to college if it is overpriced? Nobody cares where you got your degree unless its an Ivy League College, all they care about is what you can do?
If all you can do is is play video game, then they are hiring video game testers right down the street. Hottest economy in the history of planet Earth."
But it makes me wonder if these days we are not just coddling our kids by insisting they go to college and extend their babysitting all the way through college until they are 22 or 26, which is when they no longer get to be on their parents medical insurance.
I was travelling all over the world when I was 18. I figured, what use is an education if you never go out and see the world before some idiot warhawk blows it up?
And I am glad I did because it made me independent from my 18th B-day, on.
My kids have zero desire to see the world.
They're just not that interested in anything outside of America.
Its tough to relate to that lack of interest in the larger world, the one outside your little world.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/201711/10-reasons-teens-have-so-much-anxiety-todayEdited 1 time(s). Last edit at 11/10/2019 11:56PM by schrodingerscat.