Posted by:
Cauda
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Date: March 20, 2021 05:29AM
It is a hard decision to accept that a family member is an low-empathy idiot. It can take years accepting such facts.
Someone lacks empathy and lacks discernment. It creates consequences but there is still a deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep virtue in both heart and mind that says you should always give the benefit of the doubt.
If you more and more go 180 degrees and say: No I can not stand this "do not judge"-axiom anymore because there is something called "discernment" in life. You will feel bad, and identify yourself as a bad and judgemental person.
Would you agree that this "virtue" is an obstacle to change?