Posted by:
baura
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Date: July 13, 2011 11:15PM
This is an interesting topic that has been touched on in a lot of posts. Someone who is on the rolls but hasn't attended church for years, drinks, smokes, etc, but will defend the Church quite animatedly if you dare speak against it. What gives with that?
I think it has to do with ego. A lot of people have a fond remembrance of certain doctrinal things. Nothing detailed but just Jesus/First Vision/Give Said the Little Stream/etc. It's their answer for a metaphysical underpinning to their existence.
However the actual DOING of Mormonism is a soul-crushing experience for them. Being constantly reminded that they fall short of the mark can really hurt one's ego. So they become inactive. They don't actively reject the Church, they just feel better not attending. So they become inactive "Jack-Mormons."
But when you bring up the Church to them it's not the soul-crushing activity that comes to mind, it's the good feelings they had as a kid or a new convert etc. of thinking God loved them and that the Church was a good thing. Their concept of self, if they are forced to think of it, includes being Mormon on some level at least. When you attack the Church you are attacking a part of them--something that forms a major underpinning of their ego.
Get a cowboy drunk and he'll start bending your ear with how worthless he is and all the mistakes he's made in life.
Get a Jack-Mormon drunk and he'll start telling you about how he should be more active than he is.
Thoughts? Experiences?