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Nightingale
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Date: December 02, 2022 12:10PM
I was going to post this too, Tom. Here's the link to the article:
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/dec/02/i-couldnt-pretend-any-more-readers-on-why-they-left-the-christian-faithA woman named Pauline is also mentioned. She was raised as "a strict Roman Catholic with Irish parents". She said that she eventually felt (around the issue of the church "hating" LGBTQ+ people) that the church was saying "Jesus loves everybody but only if they're like us". She was also disillusioned, she said, due to "the amount of money the Catholic church has".
That is a simple statement yet it cuts to the heart of the matter that bothers many, myself included: "Jesus loves everybody but only if they're like us".
Some of the more fundamentalist branches of Christianity definitely, and deliberately, hold with that teaching. I couldn't understand as a JW, for instance, why even those I considered fellow Christians were disdained by JWs as not being in the "true" faith.
Too, for significant numbers of various different Christian groups it isn't enough to be Christian - you must be a member of their particular persuasion. That felt claustrophic to me. And shortsighted. And unreasonable. As well as confusing as hell. It inevitably leads one to the question of how anybody is going to ever figure out what is the one true path, or if there is even supposed to be only one way. Why, I would wonder, is there such a wide variety of different people on earth, with varying life experiences, traditions and teachings but we're all supposed to think and do and believe the same. In many cases, "the truth" as the JWs call their faith, comprises ideas and beliefs that are literally foreign to those who are looked upon as potential converts.
Stephen, the former Mormon mentioned in the article, said he "felt so much better" when he stopped practising the religion.
He said that when he "stepped back" (during COVID) he realized there was a lot about the religion he "no longer identified with". Interestingly, he also said he felt "alienated" by the treatment (by some) of minorities and LGBTQ+ people.
"Religion is supposed to help you be a better person" he said.
Yup.