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Posted by: toto ( )
Date: August 10, 2011 07:22PM

Thank you for encouraging me to go because attending the funeral was good for so many people including me. I was able to fully hug and get hugged in return by another colleague who was as close to our friend who passed away. In addition, I saw the deceased's family and was able to talk with them and hug them as well in support. I ignored the doctrine being spoken and enjoyed hearing about his personal life from those in his family and from extremely close friends.

Thank you again for suggesting I go; I will forever be grateful I did.

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: August 10, 2011 08:20PM

I can tell you from having been a kid who lost a parent, that even one sincerely meant "I'm so sorry" and a hug can go a long way toward comforting a bereaved family member. I'm sure that your caring presence helped the family quite a bit.

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Posted by: Helen ( )
Date: August 10, 2011 08:39PM

Hugs are as helpful as words. Nice you got hugged and gave hugs and you got to hear about your friend and could ignore the Mormon doctrine.

Take care of yourself through this journey of grief.

You had a good friend and you were a good friend.

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