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Date: August 10, 2011 10:40PM
1) I'm not a professional historian on Mormonism so I can't provide you off the top of my head direct sources, but from what I recall Emma Smith has always, at least publicly, denied that Joseph had ever practiced polygamy. She even denied this fact to her sons. She obviously knew about it but when exactly she learned about it is not really known. Reading from all historical sources it sure sounds like Joseph was a womanizer who tried to keep his affairs from Emma and later concocted the "Celestial Marriage" revelation to justify it to her. Its also seems obvious that she did NOT always (if ever) approve of his plural wifery.
According to pro-Mormon historical documents Joseph Smith started "marrying" plural wives in the 1830's (and most definitely beginning in 1841) but strangely enough, the official revelation justifying his polygamous actions, and addressed to Emma, was from 1843 (as if it was an afterthought).
I also recommend reading Emma Smith Mormon Enigma about this question.
2) I am where you were 10 years ago. I was an active RM wanting the truth but also being wary of the sources for it. For Mormon history that is not "bashing" I recommend the books sold by Signature Books and the periodicals Sunstone and Dialogue: A Journal of Mormon Thought. There may be more I can't think off the top of my head.
If you really want to go straight to all the problems in Mormon history then I highly suggest reading the books written by Jerald & Sandra Tanner. They are obviously critical of Mormonism but they do a great job of documenting everything. Most of what is in their books are simply quotations of early Mormon documents. There's really nothing to refute. Its for the reader to decide what conclusion they come to.
http://www.utlm.org/booklist/orderauthortitle.htm#Tanner, Jerald & Sandra
Below is my personal comprehensive list of books for anyone interested in the full truth of Mormon history. I have placed asterisks next to the ones I consider priority reading:
History/Joseph Smtih
* Mormonism - Shadow or Reality? (or, The Changing World of Mormonism) by Jerald & Sandra Tanner
* An Insider’s View of Mormon Origins by Grant Palmer
* No Man Knows My History: The Life of Joseph Smith by Fawn M. Broadie
* The Mormon Hierarchy: Origins of Power by D. Michael Quinn
* The Mormon Hierarchy: Extensions of Power by D. Michael Quinn
Under the Banner of Heaven by Jon Krakauer
Mormon America, The Power and the Promise by Richard Ostling, Joan K. Ostling
One Nation Under Gods: A History of the Mormon Church by Richard Abanes
Joseph Smith: Rough Stone Rolling by Richard Lyman Bushman
Joseph Smith: The Making of a Prophet by Dan Vogel
The Prophet Puzzle: Interpretive Essays on Joseph Smith by Bryan Waterman
Joseph Smith and the Origins of The Book of Mormon by David Persuitte
The Keystone of Mormonism by Arza Evans
The New Mormon History: Revisionist Essays on the Past by D. Michael Quinn
Polygamy
* In Sacred Loneliness: The Plural Wives of Joseph Smith by Todd Compton
* Mormon Enigma: Emma Hale Smith by Linda King Newell
Mormon Polygamy: A History by Richard S. Van Wagoner
Solemn Covenant: The Mormon Polygamous Passage by B. Carmon Hardy
Book of Mormon
*New Approaches to the Book of Mormon: Explorations in Critical Methodology by Brent Metcalfe
*Quest for the Gold Plates: Thomas Stuart Ferguson’s Archaeological Search for the Book of Mormon by Stan Larson
American Apocrypha: Essays on the Book of Mormon by Dan Vogel and Brent Lee Metcalfe
Losing a Lost Tribe: Native Americans, DNA, and the Mormon Church by Simon G. Southerton
Book of Abraham
*By His Own Hand Upon Papyrus: A New Look at the Joseph Smith Papyri by Charles M. Larson
Folk Magic/Occult Practices
* Early Mormonism and the Magic World View by D. Michael Quinn
Temple
Evolution of the Mormon Temple Ceremony: 1842-1990 by Jerald and Sandra Tanner
The Mysteries of Godliness: A History of Mormon Temple Worship - David John Buerger
Mountain Meadows Massacre
Blood of the Prophets: Brigham Young and the Massacre at Mountain Meadows by Will Bagley
The Mountain Meadows Massacre by Brooks, Juanita
Misc
Line Upon Line: Essays on Mormon Doctrine by Gary James Bergera
Power From On High: The Development of Mormon Priesthood - Gregory A. Prince
Notable Mentions
Joseph Smith: The First Mormon by Donna Hill
Nauvoo Polygamy: “… but we called it celestial marriage” by George D. Smith
Mormon Mavericks: Essays on Dissenters - John Sillito and Susan Staker
Good luck on your question for truth! Let us know if you have any more questions!