Posted by:
voweaver
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Date: August 14, 2011 11:53PM
I worked from before my kids were born until I retired in 2005. My jobs during that time were nowhere near as challenging as teaching (I admit that!), but I worked full-time. At one job, I worked 45 miles away from home. Both kids were under five, and my husband was active duty Army. Some times he'd be gone for weeks at at time. And then there was the period he was in the hospital for deep-fat frying his hand. I'd get up, get on the hamster wheel, and run like crazy until I collapsed at night. My son had constant ear infections then, so I'd be the one who would have to take off work and haul him to the doctor. One time while waiting to be seen, I started talking to the lady next to me, and ended up spilling my guts all over the floor. She looked at me in amazement, and said, "How do you do it?" I told her, "What else can I do?"
You do what you must. You cut corners where you can, and you just plow ahead. Looking back, sometimes I wonder HOW DID I do it?
When you are standing in that manure pile, and you've got kids, responsibilities, and a job, you just DO IT.
Today, I look at my two grown kids, and I see how AMAZING they are! And I think, "Yeah, it was worth it."
It won't last forever. It sure SEEMS like it now, but it really won't.
(PS: Seriously, I'd get your daughter a really, really CUTE haircut!)
~VOW