Posted by:
blacksheep
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Date: August 15, 2011 07:24PM
I'm moving across the country soon and so I'm driving the ten hours to go see both my parents and my mother in law. They live on opposite sides of the same town.
I'm excited to see both parties but already the drama is starting with my mother.
I knew there would be a problem when I told her I would be spending time with my no mo MIL. Both she and my mother work during the day and I will have to split the night hours to see both of them. I love my MIL. She is totally cool with me being myself. She has the same views as I do. She lives alone and is really excited to see me.
So I told my mom I'd be over at my mother in law's some of my trip and this was her response:
"Well you're MY daughter..... Really? I'm on the same level as her? (meaning my MIL)"
WTF
My mom is going to do one of her freak outs and I'm not at a point in my life where I can deal with that. If it wasn't this then it would be when she asks me to go to church with her (please.... for me? Cause you love me?) and I say no.
That will probably happen too.
Please help me. I really want this trip to go smoothly. I just want to spend time with both of them. I feel like she is TRYING to be dramatic about this. Help, help help.... any insight into this situation whatsoever. I leave tomorrow morning.