Posted by:
Summer
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Date: November 06, 2010 01:01PM
The Mormon church has conditioned you to think that spilling your guts to authorities, family, and church members about intimate issues is both necessary and desirable. It is neither. You sex life should only be discussed with your partner, and/or an MD or (non-LDS) counselor if you feel the need.
If a bishop ever asks you if you are keeping the law of chastity, your only response should be, "Yes" or "I am keeping the law of chastity." Nothing further, even if he has follow-up questions. *Because it is none of his business.* Simply state that you have answered his question, but you WILL NOT discuss it any further.
Same thing for your family if they ever inquire if you have worthiness issues. Your response should be, "No" or "I do not have any worthiness issues." Any follow up questions in that regard are *none of their business.*
So needless to say that worthiness issues should not play a role in whether or not you go on a mission. I would highly recommend that you not go. If you haven't read Flash's post about his last day on his mission...well you should.
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,27222I like the suggestions of others on this thread to say to your family that you have prayed about it and feel that the time in not right for you to go on a mission right now. I would tell them that you feel a strong prompting that you should complete your education before taking on additional responsibilities such as a mission and subsequent marriage.