Posted by:
cakey
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Date: September 11, 2011 10:47AM
Well, I find it a little irritating too, but I just have to keep telling myself that they really are doing what they think is right, however twisted it may be. I know her intentions are good. So this was my reply.
"Well little sis, thank you for your thoughts and prayers and love. I know it looks like we're suffering, to the outsider, but we are quite happy with our lives and with the way things are going. I've never been much of a faith person, but I have more faith now than I've had in my entire life. I have found faith in myself. I am taking control of my life instead of waiting for permission or promptings that never come, from god. I see a very amazing person in me too, for once. I see potential that I was blind to before. Going to church every Sunday, being reminded that I'm just not good enough, did a number on my soul. And now I'm free from that torment, my soul is light, and I feel the whole world has opened up to me. Yes, my house is gone, my money is gone, we are selling everything we own, we are living in a miniscule apartment, and I am happy. I can only see opportunities. Don't stop the thoughts and prayers for us, we are glad we have a family that cares.
You are absolutely always worth loving, I hope you never forget that. I know this will probably make you more firm in your decsision to serve a mission, but I would regret not telling you how I feel. Don't go! I don't want to be confrontational, just want you to know that you don't have to go to be a-ok in my book. That's all! Love you too. :)"
I wanted to get three things across, that I'm happy, that she's worth more than she thinks, and I wanted her to know that there is at least one person who's good opinion of her does not rely on 18 months of religious servitude. Hopefully this wasn't enough to shut down communication, I don't think it was but we'll see!