Posted by:
justanotherprettypiece
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Date: September 16, 2011 07:48AM
Hey I just wanted to add my 2 cents.
Here's an article about a black couple who gave birth to a white baby:
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3060907/Black-parents-give-birth-to-white-baby.htmlMy point is you just can never tell if someone has been adopted or not. And people shouldn't make judgement calls on it.
A little off topic: I received an e-mail about a year ago inviting me to a baby shower for a wife of someone my husband works with. I didn't know the woman very well and mentioned the e-mail to my husband that they were expecting. He mentioned this to the man he worked with, who replied, "What? She's not pregnant. We're adopting!"
My husband was really embarrassed, especially since this man was his superior. And apparently this man was a bit annoyed so my husband came home irritated at me that I would mislead him like that.
I feel in some situations, people shouldn't get upset, or offended by questions. If I receive a BABY shower invite I am going to assume it's for a baby, not a 2 year old child. I think sometimes people are being rude and sometimes they are not and every situation is different. And we should act accordingly.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 09/16/2011 07:49AM by justanotherprettypiece.