Posted by:
Freevolved
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Date: November 09, 2010 11:17PM
First of all I would like to say that you sound like a very kind, compassionate, and smart person. You seem very impressive. A good point was made by kestrafinn that these talks can be hard to have because he is undoubtedly sure to have the term "anti-mormon" branded in his mind. I believe you can get past this though. While I recommend you check out
http://www.mormonthink.com/ and the thinking of joining mormonism? link on this homepage
http://www.exmormon.org/tract2.htm, even just watching the pbs show the mormons
http://www.pbs.org/mormons/view/. It is VITAL to this conversation that you are careful which sources you use.
You have to use the churches own sources. Use sources like Richard Bushman's "Joseph Smith: Rough Stone Rolling." Try to get a copy of that. He's a practicing mormon historian and he talks about a lot of the problems your boyfriend wouldn't be aware of. Such as Joseph Smith practiced polygamy/polyandy, JS translated the book of mormon with his head in a hat. JS drank. The temple endowment comes from the masons. These are all things written by a believing mormon - and you can buy it at BYU.
Hopefully then he'll trust your sources and you can start throwing more stuff at him.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 11/09/2010 11:17PM by evolution.