Posted by:
motherwhoknows
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Date: October 10, 2011 04:04AM
A few years ago, longtime, more valiant, members were assigned to specific investigators--to attend class with them, fellowship them, escort them to the Christmas party and to firesides, etc. It was a specific calling. Several of my friends did this, as couples. I would guess that now they are just more sneaky about it.
The teacher of our investigator class (this class is more recently called "Gospel Principles") came to my house to invite me to his class. He politely told me that members who are less active often benefit in going to this more basic class, to "refresh" themselves with the foundations of Mormonism. The class was once called "Foundations of Mormonism." Like a chameleon, it keeps disguising itself to entrap the wayward less actives (who used to be called inactives). Is this clear?
Along with the teacher, was a man who had been one of my best Mormon friends, for many years. We had worked together in the Scouts and in the music. He said he would like to go to the class with me, as he humbly felt he needed brushing up on the basics, too. He said his wife would come with us as often as she could. I said, "So, you have been assigned to fellowship me." He did not deny it. I felt...conspired against, behind my back...targeted...judged. With that approach, I can't imagine anyone agreeing to go through the humiliation of attending that class. Good luck with that....
By the way, I told them no, that I had attended Sunday School and Primary and YW, every week of my childhood, seminary in high school, and all the required BYU religion classes, and institute and Stanford University and University of Utah. I had read the Book of Mormon 8 times. I said that I couldn't imagine how one more class repeating the exact same material, could possible make any difference. I didn't want to think about Joseph Smith and his religion anymore--I wanted to learn more about Christ, and to practice Christian principles in my life, going forward.
To anyone--especially to any Christian--this would be a noble resolve, but these men acted like Satan had hold of me, and shook their heads in pity for me and my children. They said they were sad that I was leading my children astray, and that they would fail without Mormonism. They said this right in front of my children!