Posted by:
WickedTwin
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Date: October 23, 2011 02:37AM
I just got back from a funeral in Utah.
It's the first time I had seen my in-laws since I resigned. Anyway, DH has many issues with the church, but still is a believer. He hasn't been in two years and really the only times he went was if I dragged him with me. Completely inactive, but not a lost cause to his parents.
We were at various family events. TWICE I overheard people take my husband aside and say stuff like "it's not my place, but if you do things that invite the spirit, like reading your scriptures..."
Then I walk around the corner and they shut up. I'm really not the type of person to cross, and if you want to go about Mormonism, I'm loaded for bear. They all know that.
Their tactic was that whenever I was in the room, they would start bearing their testimony to each other right in front of me, apropos of nothing. I yawned and started texting friends. I quite like my iPhone's keyboard clicks in that circumstance.
"I was [click-click-click] about Joseph [clickety-click-click-click] and Covenants where it says [click-click-click] and [click-click] applies to [click-click] even today." ha ha ha
Sunday, DH gets three calls inviting him to church. One of them ends with "I will love you even if you say no." DH was like "all right, 'no' then." Nice try.
There was obviously one or more people in the chapel of a different faith, because they kept explaining things like what a family home evening was, and saying things like "because in our church, we believe in continuing revelation from living prophets." As if living in an area with 80% LDS saturation, you could escape knowing all the factoids they kept giving out.
I thought it was offensive, because it seemed like they were using this person's life as a back story to the real message. Then her closest relative got up. His entire 30 minute talk really had nothing to do with her (the deceased) at all. The ENTIRE talk was about how he knew JS was a true prophet and the spiritual experiences that manifested it to him and how if we all ponder and pray, we can all come to know it for ourselves.
I have not been to a Mo funeral since I left TSCC. Are they all as horribly inappropriate as that one??? It was a two-hour missionary discussion.
Oh, and by the way, someone died...