Posted by:
deconverted2010
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Date: October 24, 2011 04:01PM
The traditions where I grew up in regards to funerals were that people wore black for the service and to the cemetery. If not black, dark colours were the norm, but definitely not read or yellow because those were not mourning colours. The service was a mesage of hope and resurrection and people talked about the person's life. Family and friends from far came if they could.
I was surprised at one funeral in particular where a lot of people were wearing red and the first speaker said 'we're here to say goodbye to our friend X but I won't talk about his life but rather give you a message", the message was about spreading the gospel. Everyone kept looking at each other, especially because all his extended family was catholic, they were all in black and hoping to celebrate his life. I thought it was so inapropriate but by the thidr funeral I attended I realized that at church every oportunity is a missionary opportunity, period, no regard for anything else.
Anyway, is there a reason why mormons will not wear black at funerals? Is it t distance themselves from all other Christian faiths?
I know there are religions in the world that will wear white for funerals and other that would never wear white for a wedding dress, it's cultural, but somehow I thought mormons would be more in line with other Christians religions practiced in the US.
Thanks,
D