Posted by:
Cheryl
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Date: October 25, 2011 02:13PM
The polygamists in Joe's time right up to the present day like to pretend that polygamy is all about caring for women and children or about libertarian freedom or religion.
Actually, most of us probably know it's about sex.
Funny thing is that anyone can have more and better sex without the pretense of marrying everyone who stimulates sexual interest.
They don't need to pretend they've interviewed and carefully screened prospective participants to be sure they have every family need covered.
Yes, some plygs actually say that they have one spouse who is an expert at childrearing, one for bringing in income, one for household upkeep, one who cooks and cans. Nope. as in Joe's day, spouses are still chosen as sex objects or for the power and money they bring to the equation.
What kind of pathetic person would be flattered to enter a family where they would get occasional sex with a shared spouse in exchange for a needed skill like keeping the books or knitting winterwear?
Sillier is the idea that polygamists are only doing it because there's no other charitable way of taking care of women and children in need. No, the care that needy women and children receive is catch as catch can and never the purpose for the polygamous arrangement.
Kids shouldn't have to give parent status to every adult their actual parents want to boink.
Modern life is complicated. Polygamy doesn't help. It only makes life more complicated and opens up untold legal and ethical unintended consequences.
We're a diverse modern industrial society. Polygamy has been the norm in many cultures but overall, it's been detrimental when it's tried here in modern day America.
Call me names and tell me I can't voice opinions when these kinds of threads appear.
Nope, don't ask for opinions if you don't want to hear them. I won't play along with misguided political correctness by shutting up.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/25/2011 02:21PM by Cheryl.