Posted by:
freeman
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Date: October 29, 2011 11:22AM
Every Mormon family I have ever known in my entire life had family "rules" governing how they must "keep the Sabbath Day holy". Yet every family's rules were different. No two families appear to interpret the commandment in the same way.
TV or no TV?
Music?
Family activities?
Going out?
And the other thing I have noticed in my own family, is that the rules are adaptable and changeable (something they must have subliminally learned from the church leadership).
"NO TV"! (Except when my favourite sports team is playing)
(...then 10 years later it has become "No TV until late evening when we can watch the news...)
"NO WORK" (Except preparing, cooking and cleaning up after the most labour intensive meal we eat together all week)
Mum would spend 4 hours every Sunday on the phone to her brothers and sisters. Dad would spend it asleep. When I asked what I could possibly do, staring at the blank TV screen, I was usually told "do some schoolwork", "read a book!" They never did offer an acceptable answer to my points that schoolwork is WORK and reading a book requires more effort, and is potentially even more irreverent than watching something non-offensive on TV.
The important thing was always, of course, that they could feel good about themselves as parents, by believing they were keeping one of God's commandments. Logic wasn't an issue, as long as they believed they were doing right.
How did your TBM families enforce the holiness of Sundays after church?