Posted by:
motherwhoknows
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Date: November 14, 2010 04:44PM
And, NO, it is NOT normal to report to the bishop every week!
Show your husband the invitation, and immediately and firmly decline. Make a joke about it if you can.
Be honest, and tell your husband that you would blush in embarrassment! The bishop only wants to help your husband convert you. Oh, how that bishop must love your husband's tithing money, and getting credit for bringing your husband back into the cult! He knows you have a chance of getting your husband out the cult, so he needs to indoctrinate you, too. Would they befriend you otherwise? NO.
Tell your husband that these people are obsessed with a fanatic cult, and that you have nothing in common with them. (Well, except your shared worrying about your husband's sex life) This would be a sick relationship!
My husband got me out of the cult by being a very positive, fun, loving partner to me. You could suggest doing something else together, instead, that same night, and something your husband loves to do. My husband made it clear that he would not particiipate in or support any church functions. It took a couple of years, but he got me and our children out! I will forever thank him for that.
Boycotting church functions works, because the Mormons shoot themselves in the foot. Your husband will never fit in socially, because he's "married to an inactive." He will soon get tired of sitting alone in meetings, being alone in a couples' world, leaving early without talking to anyone, having only fake friends, being constantly harrassed about why he hasn't converted you yet. Let the Mormons chase him away. If you support your husband's cult affiliation, and smooth things over for him, he will just stay in it longer.
It happened to me, and it will happen to your husband. (((hugs))) and good luck.