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exminion
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Date: June 05, 2018 02:58AM
My brother had Aspergers, and I always felt he and Mormonism were a perfect fit. He love the black-and-white thinking, the rules and schedules, the regimentation. He was a tattle-tale, and it was popular for kids to rat-out transgressors, like little Nazi informers. He thrived in that role.
My brother had a high IQ, and had a photographic memory, so he was The Scripture Expert for his Sunday school classes. Chapter and verse, he had the BOM and the D&cC practically memorized. He also knew church history, as some of our ancestors were the very first Mormons. He knew the exact day and date of all the events--real and invented. He was also a close relative of a very high-up GA in the day.
My brother was loud and aggressive, not at all shy. He would interrupt the Sunday school teacher, and correct him on any numbers errors. He would interrupt with a quoted scripture, that usually had nothing to do with the lesson, but had a key word in it.
We didn't know my brother had Asperger's, and I gave him a hard time, because although he had scriptures memorized, he could not tell us the MEANING of the scripture. Actually, this ignorance of meaning made him a better Mormon. He didn't comprehend enough to question.
All he knew is that he didn't like some things, and certain arrogant leaders made him mad. He had a foul temper and no patience to sit still, be quiet, and listen. All of this made him quit Mormonism, as soon as he got off his mission. Our GA relative died, and my brother felt that he had lost his "Mormon Royalty" status. Leaving, for him, was more an emotional thing. The Mormons had taught him that there were certain things that he could not know--and that no one could know for certain--and that God Almighty didn't have to bother to explain His Great Plans to mere peons like us. They made him feel like a buffoon, whenever he asked questions. He preferred to keep his genius image, and stick to scripture-quoting.
He never married, but he made a lot of money, which would come in huge chunks, and he would pay tithing on it, with great flair, and he got lots of approval for that. He bore his testimony EVERY fast Sunday, without fail, and someone would always have to make him stop talking, to give others a chance. He did have a sense of humor, though.
He never held any church positions, and his mission was just a ruse, but I think that without the church group as his audience, and as instant "friends," he would have killed himself, which he was always threatening to do. He died last year, most of us had never seen such an interesting production of a funeral, pre-planned by himself. The speakers were friends of ours--professional writers, and scientists, not Mormons. Music by Beethoven and Mozart. Too bad he missed it, but he did create it and imagine it.