Posted by:
stuck
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Date: November 19, 2011 04:55AM
So, my husband and I are stationed on an overseas military base. After a while of being inactive, I decided to go back to church. My husband is not a member and he decided he would go with me. I told the missionaries to give my husband space and not to bother him or they would scare him away.At first things were ok, he even invited them over for the first lesson ....my husband asked what happens in the temple if one spouse dies and the other spouse then decides to get remarried? They told him they would answer that when he became a member and prepared to go to the temple. At the end of the lesson, they asked him if he would commit to another lesson and then commit to baptism. I thought what in the world....oh my. Anyways...a few weeks later...my husband keeps putting the missionaries off (he was honestly really busy...for those of you that don't know a lot about the military..sometimes it takes up a lot of your time)...we were at church one sunday and he got up to go use the bathroom and when he walked out, a missionary was standing there waiting for him and said "I did not want you to leave!"..uh hello...privacy please..do not follow someone to the bathroom for crying out loud. Needless to say that was the final straw for my husband..he is absolutley petrified of any church related thing now and he never got his question answered...and what could I tell him?I don't know the answer either. They also spotted him at the store on post and followed him around there and told him to come back to church that they would sit by him during Sunday school. I also was called to be a sunbeams teacher (which I really don't like but try to stay positive about) right as my husbands attendance starting going downhill (I guess my attendance was too, it's just so hard being away from him all week and then getting up and going to church without him for 3 1/2 hours every Sunday..I would just rather spend it with him.) By the way, we are in a country where 9 out of 10 people drive something like a little BMW or Volkswagen and everytime he sees a minivan , he has to make sure it's not "the Mormons" before he gets out of the car.