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Posted by: runtu ( )
Date: November 15, 2010 02:08PM

Friday night as I was waiting for a takeout order in a downtown Salt Lake sandwich shop, I read a fascinating article in the City Weekly paper about a UVU professor's dismay at prevailing attitudes in Utah toward "inappropriate" movies and, in particular, his disgust at the existence of movie-editing businesses, such as CleanFlix. (http://www.cityweekly.net/utah/article-12520-cleanflicks-cleanflix.html)

He wrote of how difficult it is to teach a class on media and communication when half of your class refuses to view the material you want to discuss. As an outsider to Mormon culture, he tried to understand his students' perspective, with predictable results:

"I try and try, and fail and fail, to take their perspective. 'So, what are you afraid is going to happen if you watch an R-rated movie?'

"'Those images go in and you can’t get them out. It affects the way you think. It will desensitize you to the real thing.'

"'The real thing?'

“'Sex!'

“'Do you all read romance novels and watch romantic movies?'

Oh, yes, they do!

“'Does that desensitize you to romance?'

“'It’s not the same thing!' [/quote]

But, to argue about the reasons for fearing R-rated movies is to miss the point.

"But the 'death of the author' also implies that the meanings of words and images are in people, at the moment and in the context of their interpretation, while clean-movie editing is based on the idea that the meanings of words and images are in the symbols themselves, fixed and stable across time, context and audience members. Thus, some words are good—here, there, now and always—and some words are bad—here, there, now and always. That’s why they call them “bad words.” The theory is that certain words and images have bad meanings and create bad thoughts, regardless of their contexts. They must, otherwise, the whole enterprise, of allowing this word but excluding that word (yes to 'Jesus,' but no to 'penis'), would be entirely absurd!

"Language codes (like Carlin’s famous list of the seven dirty words you can’t say on TV) don’t work because language doesn’t work that way. The meanings of words don’t stand still long enough for us to put them into boxes with their meanings affixed like postage stamps. When a would-be verbal prison guard attempts to lock up a word, he doesn’t touch its meaning. Put a word in a box and its meaning leaks right out. Can’t say “sex”? Let’s just call it “rock & roll.” Can’t say “sexy”? I’ll just say, “that girl over there, she’s got it.” Are they going to banish the word “it”?

"Above all else, CleanFlicks presents an attempt to police sexual expression and desire organized around the “clean/dirty” dichotomy. But, the idea of “clean movies” and “dirty movies” is a fairy tale for children. It is as real as the Easter Bunny. There is no objective or moral science there. Words and images don’t have objective or scientific meanings. They have subjective, cultural meanings. They are contextual. People, with particular values, histories, vocabularies, patterns of cultural taste, etc., interpret them, in relation to a whole range of elements, inside the texts and out."

Language is a messy business, to be sure. Context is everything, and context is random, beyond our control. We invent these language codes to impose stability and order so we can sleep at night. A world where things mean what they say is quite comforting to a lot of people, and these codes of acceptable language and images contribute to that sense of well-being. But how strange is it that a religion as large and diverse as the LDS church would adopt the American film industry's rating system as an arbiter of acceptable images and language? The MPAA determines ratings by checking off a list of words, images, and actions--and then quantifying their occurrence in a film. Say the word "fuck" once, and it's a PG-13 film; say it again, and you're in R territory. And what distinguishes the bare-breasted woman in Oskar Schindler's bed from, say, the bare-breasted woman who literally pops into the frame of Airplane!?

In short, the codes themselves are random, subjective, and contextual, yet they give the illusion of hard-and-fast boundaries. And thus we remove meaning from where it is rightly created (within ourselves) and invest it in symbols. We effectively censor our ability to "read" and interpret by adopting the limits and biases of some other reader who has determined in advance what we should and should not experience. We surrender to the idea that words and images mean something fixed, with a stark line separating the good from the bad--we stay safe and clean by staying on the right side of the line.

Terry Eagleton suggested that Mormonism has evolved from a once-vibrant and revolutionary movement to one in which you aren't allowed to say "fuck." But it wasn't always that way. Early Mormonism seems rooted in possibilities: creating a Zion on earth, building the kingdom, redeeming the House of Israel. But the same impulse to impose order and structure on a random and often frightening universe drove the early Mormons just as much as the CleanFlix folks. Early Mormons sought for reassurance that what they did mattered, that there was some sort of cosmic significance in even the most mundane activities in frontier America. The Mormon community sought from the beginning to separate itself from the Gentile world; they set up cooperative economic and social structures and called for converts to gather to places of refuge from the world. Latter-day Saints were constructing their own dichotomies, seeking to establish something "fixed and stable across time, context, and audience."

In the 21st century, Mormons are far less separated from the rest of the world geographically or culturally, so these dichotomies become much more important for many as cultural markers that delineate the borders of what it is to be a Latter-day Saint. Not surprisingly, these markers almost always appear as dichotomies. Thus, Boyd Packer warns that we should not allow "inappropriate" thoughts to remain on the stage of our minds (they can be driven out with a hymn), and Thomas Monson insists that faith and doubt cannot exist in the same mind, thus "doubting, agnostic thoughts" must be banished from our thoughts.

But, like language, life is rarely lived within the black and white. Joseph Smith seems to have recognized this with his emphasis on a more situation and relative morality. But trying to live a black-and-white life not only causes us to miss the gray areas, but it also prevents us from seeing all the other colors of the spectrum.

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Posted by: baura ( )
Date: November 15, 2010 03:04PM

I'm reminded of a line in "Apocalypse Now." Kurtz says, "They drop fire on people, but they are not allowed to write 'fuck' on their helmets because it's obscene."

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Posted by: EssexExMo ( )
Date: November 15, 2010 03:28PM

Thomas Bowdler edited Shakespeare to take out all the 'naughty references'.... for example, in Macbeth, Lady Macbeth's famous cry "Out, damned spot!" was changed to "Out, crimson spot!".

F*** knows what he did to 'Romeo and Juliet'

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Posted by: bookish ( )
Date: November 15, 2010 03:36PM

I have a cousin who announced on facebook that she won't be taking her 10-year-old to see the Harry Potter movie coming out next weekend. She found out there is a kissing scene that shows bare shoulders implying nudity, or something to that effect. Apparently it's OK for her child to see lots of fantasy violence, death, and destruction, but NOT a kissing scene. I have long been annoyed by this weird double standard.

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Posted by: Jesus Smith ( )
Date: November 15, 2010 03:38PM

And sarcastic comedies. They desensitize you to loud laughter, and evil, sarcastic speaking...

Oh the horrors!

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Posted by: quoth the raven "nevermo" ( )
Date: November 15, 2010 03:49PM

Yeah everyone knows that showing kissing and bare shoulders to a ten year old will lead to a porn addiction and sexual promiscuity. It is a given. Stupid cult.

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Posted by: loveskids ( )
Date: November 16, 2010 12:43AM

Have you looked at all the Disney Princess's lately? Talk about cleavage and off the shoulder,and what about Ariel in her nasty mermaid gown. Holy crap-don't let the little girls look.Or little boys for that matter. My 10 year old ds quite enjoys looking at those cute girls,and loves kissing scenes on tv. So does the 7 year old...maybe a little to much.

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Posted by: EssexExMo ( )
Date: November 15, 2010 04:00PM

It is often said that, on US TV, you can see 10 different murders every night, but, a 5 second shot of a female nipple sends the entire nation into panic mode.

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Posted by: ExMormonRon ( )
Date: November 15, 2010 04:03PM

What do romance and sex have to do with one another? Oh, wait, I'm divorced .... maybe that why. :)

Ron

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