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Date: December 07, 2011 12:06PM
I know I've harped on this before but it came up again just yesterday so I thought I'd give the subject it's own thread. I have now been asked this question by a number of non-LDS people who, hearing I've left Mormonism, want a clarification on something they heard a Mormon say. It goes something like this:
"My LDS neighbor (friend, co-worker) says that people only leave the Mormon church because they are offended. If their church is losing so many members because they are offended, why doesn't the church do something about how offensive their members are? Maybe they could teach more about being Christlike or some basic manners or something."
You see, most normal people don't blame the victim - the offended - for not bending over and taking the offense the way Mormons do. Their immediate reaction is to wonder why Mormons are so offensive and why no one is doing anything to teach Mormons better manners. Especially if their church is hemorrhaging members like the Mormons are. Why can't the Mormon leadership wake up and realize that Mormons need some etiquette lessons? Is it because they realize it's a hopeless task or are they so focused on making money that they don't realize what ignoring member bad behavior is costing them? Or maybe they just think that, as God's in Embryo, everyone else has to cow-tow to them in an astonishing display of corporate narcissism. At any rate, you'd think the leaders would wake up and see how much money having such offensive members is costing them.
Or maybe they just know that isn't really the reason people leave???