Posted by:
gemini
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Date: November 18, 2010 12:25PM
I got engaged in June. We moved in together in July. Bought a house and have been living there for a few months. We are both divorced (me-twice) and are both gun-shy about moving forward with a wedding. Things are good now just like they are.
I know there are tax/health insurance/etc benefits to being married. I also like the idea of the committment of marriage, but with the high divorce rate (especially for subsequent marriages) that doesn't seem to be any kind of guarantee anymore.
I never thought I would actually consider just co-habitating with someone without being married. I feel like we are a committed couple, but, gees, how does one really know what the future holds?
My TBM family keeps asking me when we are getting married and I know I am an embarassment to them and a poor example and role model to my grandchildren. I live with that.
I just read an article in the SLTribune that a high percentage of people think marriage is becomming a relic in modern society.
Anyone here have thoughts on this?