Posted by:
derrida
(
)
Date: December 27, 2011 10:29PM
What's more "moral" than a mother breastfeeding a baby? What lessons does it teach about human bonding, ideas about the "perfect moment," care, nurturing--the actual meaning of these, the hint of them in future interactions or projects?
Instead of the Freudian fort/da game or the primal scene or the mirror stage (prime candidates for such exemplary moments from psychoanalysis), this attachment to the breast (on the part of the baby) and to the baby (on the part of the mother), seems like a good candidate for an exemplary moment of human morality (and not just a good "part-object" viz. Karen Horney). And who is to say that the anticipation of breastfeeding, of seeing the baby, doesn't initialize release of "mothering hormones?" It does. The hormone prolactin is already present too. A lactating breast needs pregnancy hormones.
http://mothering.com/pregnancy-birth/ecstatic-birth-the-hormonal-blueprint-of-laborSee also the short article, "The Science of Mother Love":
"Alan Schore, assistant clinical professor in the department of psychiatry and biobehavioral sciences at UCLA School of Medicine, a major conclusion of the last decade of developmental neuroscience research is that the infant brain is designed to be molded by the environment it encounters.
"...the most crucial component of these earliest interactions is the primary caregiver - the mother. 'The child's first relationship, the one with the mother, acts as a template, as it permanently molds the individual's capacities to enter into all later emotional relationships.' Others agree. The first months of an infant's life constitute what is known as a critical period - a time when events are imprinted in the nervous system."
http://mothering.com/parenting/the-science-of-mother-loveIn Daniel Quinn's novel Ishmael, he talks about a sign of a species' decline as the mothers refusing to suckle the young. Imagine a generation of humans who lack any experience of initial nurturing at the breast. Seems like a possible recipe for raising a generation of sociopaths.