Posted by:
FreeAtLast
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Date: November 19, 2010 05:15AM
http://members.shaw.ca/blair_watson/Healing/recovering from Mo-ism is an 'organic' process that's unique to each individual (in its totality), but with common 'threads' that others have experienced. It's a function of how emotionally invested in Mormonism people were, how many years they participated in the LDS Church and their level of 'activity', and other factors.
I like the saying: We can't make flowers grow any faster by tugging on them (they grow at their own speed). This is true of the new, Ex-Mormon you that's emerging. You don't need to worry; you've been moving in the right direction. Keep going!
In terms of the emotions you've experienced, a psychologist would tell you that you've been working through a major loss (your loss of trust in the LDS Church, which systematically abused your trust and psyche/mind). Clearly, you're resilient. Happier days lie ahead for you!
I can promise you that none of the difficult emotions lasts forever. As you continue to psychologically liberate yourself from cultic Mormonism by doing things you enjoy, making new friends, developing values and a lifestyle that works for you, exploring new opportunities, thinking for yourself, etc., you'll find that the sadness diminishes to the point of not being a part of your inner 'world.'
Best wishes!