Posted by:
intellectualfeminist
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Date: January 01, 2012 01:55PM
VERY TRUE!! I've moved on in a lot of ways since I left, but I have three kids (two of them minors) who are still members. Things come up sometimes and emotions can easily be triggered when I get the occasional sucker punch. This place is the safety valve. And the learning curve.
I read other people's posts, and see what they're going through, things I've never personally dealt with and can't imagine having to endure. These are my personal heros and heroines......not because they're perfect; in fact because they're NOT. Because they're the OPPOSITE of that fake, stereotypical self-important, self-righteous, and utterly, utterly false front that Mormons present in their blatantly obvious quest for "perfection", LD$ Inc. style.
I learn so much from the personal experiences of others; and those who post in understanding, culled from years of life experience and coming to terms with what can and does change......and what doesn't.
And then there's the rich, raucous, rowdy, and frequently rude humor. Also a much-needed catharsis ;P
And the just plain bizarre or obscure tidbits from deep in the Mormon vaults that someone will bring up.........and you realize that even after 22 years in the cult, there's much, much, MUCH more than you ever realized or wanted to know!
I love this crazy place, a refuge from, and a resource for, the other crazy place we've left, or are in the process of leaving, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually.
And I love all these crazy wonderful full-of-life people!!!
Happy 2012 everyone; hope to see many more make this THEIR year of freedom :)