Posted by:
Shrek's Sister
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Date: January 24, 2012 02:02PM
I did, when I was younger, and living at my parents home, back in the '70's. I was recently divorced w/a young son (a toddler) and lived at their home temporarilly. I had a dinner "date" w/a girlfriend of mine---and my folks asked me to cancel it, bec. they had a very "special" Family Home Eve. planned for me. Well, I did as they asked.
At the time, my two youngest sibblings were still living at home w/them (still teen-agers). What took place next was nothing short of pure-dee Evil. They took turns (we were all sitting in a circle, in the livingroom)---- each of them, one at a time, and verbalized to me all of the negative things they could think of about me. Nothing positive or good was ever said about me. I know I'm not perfect (as is true of all of us humans), and I'm sure I made some wrong choices in life, but I'm (and was then) an overall good/law-abiding, kind-hearted, caring person.
My younger bro. and sis. were forced to do this, bec. they have always been very loving/caring towards me. But, what they did was just UNcouth, and UNbelievable, to me. They were very active in their Ward, and admired by most people. If the other ward members ever knew about this, it would have shocked and troubled them, hands down. I never told my Bishop about this, nor any other ward member-----only my best freinds (who were also LDS). They could not even believe it.
But, anyway, has anything like this ever happened to any of you, and if so, how did you handle it ?? This, along w/many yrs. of emotional/psychological abuse at their hands ("hearts", really) is a big reason I'm no longer a member of the church. THere's much more to this story, but, to me, the main reason they did this is bec. they felt they were "superior" to me/"better than me" type-thing----------Holier Than Thou------so very typical of many TBM's, sad to say "-