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NewNameNeeded
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Date: January 30, 2012 03:32AM
'you can leave the church, but you can't leave it alone'
'there is no success outside of the failure in the home'
'To him who was given much, much is required'
From my exmormon gay cousin, currently understudy on the Book of Mormon the musical, "You can't live 2 lives, just like the biblical scripture, you cannot serve god and mammon. You need to be true to yourself, but what you're doing truely is admirable. because in the sense of you're straight, white male educated in TCCS, you've got it made there."
I promised myself I'd never be an angry EXmormon, and now here I am, more and more finding myself angry, ostricized, and somewhat lost.'
I think I've come to my beliefs that I find scientific truth pure and honest. I do not believe in a god with a white beard hanging out on kolob eternally impregnating scores of women. I believe in energy. With these among other personal beliefs,I also find that I'm outnumber, lost, and outnumbered in my direct TCCS family. I CAN'T GO BACK AND WOULDN'T ANYWAY. My goal this year is to fully resign from the church. I'm no longer scared of hurting my family, despite how they have mistreated me due to religion.
I find myself in an incredibly exciting universe much much bigger and astounding than the morg teaches, yet still stuck in mormon guilt ties. I know in my heart I'm not going to hell, despite what TCCS teaches/brainwashed withme/family pounding in my child, teenage mind. I did EVERYTHING. primary, leadership roles, leadership mission roles, complete activity. Until after my mission I dissappered and started living whatever I wanted to life.
While living a very laissez-faire 20's, I hate that TCCS lie to the good people living the LDS faith. I hate how they play politics by secret covers. I hate they whitewash their history. And I hate that there is little I can do for my family to see my views. they never ask for my beliefs and that what I have given is considered rude and blasphemous. They've reduced me to a basically a lost member in my own life, with pretty much has left me with zero relationship with family. Further, I honestly have no idea what a real relationship with them would look like today. They're the type of Mormons that would stop wearing the makeup if the "so called prophet' asked it.
How do I find peace and validation in a family that I consider completely closed off? How do I stop feeling angry, when I feel duped and angry about the morg? Any suggestions?
I've found you can leave the church, but the church can't leave you alone.
Edited 3 time(s). Last edit at 01/30/2012 03:42AM by NewNameNeeded.