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Date: February 01, 2012 11:15PM
Yep, friend's slacker 16 year old son has a newfound fondness for engineering. His grades are average and yet he spends so much time practicing in the jazz band which is stupid. The jazz band won't give him a scholarship and a career. (Extra-curricular activities should come second.)
But, his two sisters don't really know what they want to do. One moved to Idaho to be a paramedic (I'm sure she could have found that schooling in her home state). While the other sister just had a child and dropped out of college to have the child.
This is disturbing. I really want to give my two cents. Normally, I'd stay out of it, but he makes his business my business by telling me all the family dynamics.
Sounds like his two daughters lost the gender lottery at birth. And now the slacker son, who needs a jolt of electricity to wake up, is suddenly interested in engineering. Odd too is that I'm telling my friend that his son has to start looking for scholarships NOW. He's a college graduate. He's living paycheck to paycheck. Did he forget that colleges charge tuition? Why is he so lackadaisical with his in getting his son schooling paid for?
Where are the parents?
The son, I believe, doesn't know what he wants to do. He's being pushed into engineering because he likes building erector sets. I told the son on "Bring Your Son to Work Day" that my twin was an engineer and the light bulb didn't go off in his head to maybe talk to or shadow my brother. This was about 6 months ago. This conveyed to me that he didn't really have an interest in engineering.
What would you guys do? Just nod your head and act like you care? Or boil inside like I am?
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 02/01/2012 11:33PM by newcomer.