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SusieQ#1
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Date: February 08, 2012 08:13PM
That seems to be the result of being concerned about what other people think about you. Sounds like it's time to stop that and set your own boundaries, take your power back and own it, and live your life the way you want and never mind what anyone else thinks!!
There are no black sheep! There are just people - all unique and individual with the right to live their lives on their own terms.
Know that you are OK just the way you are. Ignore people who say things about you that are not true. Who would believe lies about you anyhow?
Learn not to take other people's opinions personally. They are not about you, they are about them!
Check out The Four Agreements. You just might find some useful info there that will give you some guidelines that are beneficial.
http://www.miguelruiz.com/The second agreement is don't take anything personally. Whatever happens around you, don't take it personally.