Posted by:
elee
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Date: February 08, 2012 11:55AM
Oh dear. I actually had forgotten about this entirely until quite recently. I was driving in my car and a certain Depeche Mode song came on the radio. That song? 'People Are People'.
Link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IW-ftxIrhBcSo, I was asked to give a two and a half minute talk in SM. This would have been around 1984/5, so I would have been 16 or 17 at the time.
I don't remember them giving me a topic, though I can't imagine they didn't.
Again, this was the mid-80s, so use your imaginations and take a guess at what I must have looked like. Multiple piercing (this was before multiple earrings ban), hair hanging down in my eyes in front, but sticking straight up everywhere else, tons of black eyeliner and mascara and, I suppose, a very good chance I was wearing entirely black clothing. :)
I read the lyrics to the song, then took the remainder of the time to chastise the entire ward about being judgmental and only taking a person's appearance into account when making such a judgment.
The looks on the faces of many in the congregation was surprise and shock. But they didn't cut off my mike. Afterward, a handful of people came up and told me it needed to be said and thanked me for my message. I don't remember ever being chastened for it by the bishop or anyone else.
I'm embarrassed by this now because it was such a completely self-righteous thing to do. And self-righteous in the way that only a teenager can muster. On the other hand, I can't believe I actually had the stones to do it at all.
Even stranger still, this was not the last time I was asked to speak in SM. The next time they asked me, though, I said yes and then skipped the meeting.
Should I be embarrassed about this still? Because I am. But then I'm conflicted about my embarrassment, too.