thats what ive noticed meeting up with old mission buddies on facebook i just put on a show. a few years ago one of them was over from melbourne and wanted me to come to dinner at the JSMB. there was 6 or 7 RMs there talking about all the bad stuff they and others did on the mish. somehow know one ever asked me about my callings. maybe it goes along with others have said that members dont care to talk about church things as much as apostates do. another mish buddie played 18 and it never came up. crazy.