Yeah....mid sixties and single. You better get it going like pronto. If your feeling it and she ain't, get your ass back on over to the ladies shuffleboard and find a player.
Dating in my teens and early twenties was just a pile of frustration for me. Back then, my interest in girls/women was purely sexual. Thank you, hormones, for making me shallow. So, if I was supposed to be chaste like a good Mormon lad, then what was the point of spending time with females? To talk? To become friends? Eh, sorry. All I can think of is sex. I don't want to know about her interests and ambitions -- unless it involves getting naked with me -- which we're not supposed to do. Aargh!
So it was a HUGE relief to get out into the normal world where it was understood sex was on the menu -- as long as she liked me.
I believe sex to be such an important part of a relationship that I now support premarital sex.
How many dates before you have sex? We were with a group of friends talking about such issues when I mentioned that my boyfriend and I had sex 3 times before we had our official first date.
One gal I chatted with online came ovr for a 1-nighter; no dinner, no movie, Nothing
One gal I met at her apt... we went for a walk at the park. she went into the restroom, took off her bra & put it into her purse. we petted for a while then went back to her place & 'did the deed'.
"A man is only as old as the woman he feels" Groucho Marx.