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Nightingale
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Date: November 25, 2010 04:57PM
Interacting with people for the sole purpose of getting something out of them or manipulating them in some way is not honourable. Seeking to proselytize in their own place of worship is disrespectful. Doing so covertly is even more so. If they accept you at face value and you act in a way they wouldn't approve or allow if they knew your true intent, I think that is dishonest, no matter what your opinion is of their religious beliefs.
I don’t think Holly is “missing the point” but rather is stating it exactly. Turn it around and see how you’d feel if someone did this in your place of worship. It isn’t just what you say or how you say it but the intent behind your testimony-giving. You would be suspect anyway, I believe, not because you are talking about Jesus and Christians think Mormons don’t do that but because you are unknown in that chapel as well as the fact that you’d come across sounding like a BAC, especially if you expound on “grace” which, true enough, is not often a part of a Mormon SM, at least none that I've ever attended. So, I think you’d be outted as an intruder in their midst and I wouldn’t blame them for being less than impressed with you.
When I was a new member, the missionaries were intense about me giving a testimony. They said it was the next step after baptism and was expected of every member on a regular basis. I had stated clearly prior to baptism that I did not consider JS to have been a prophet and the missionaries told me that was okay (of course, anything is okay to them in order to get a baptism). But even the bishop worked that way, as he gave me a TR even though I clearly stated my stand on JS. I think they all put their faith in the HS to make everything work out. Their thinking was just get me baptized, get me active in the church, get me to the temple, and I would eventually be truly converted. That didn’t work with me as every step further into Mormonism made me more leery.
I don’t have a problem speaking in public but found it difficult to get up in front of the LDS congregation to give a testimony. I’m not given to that even in BAC and other churches I have attended, as I consider my specific beliefs and feelings to be private. I was even more nervous because of being unsure what to say. I knew I couldn’t lie and give the expected lines about knowing the church is true and that JS “is” a prophet. I settled on giving a testimony of God, that I believed He existed and that His Son, Jesus Christ, is our Saviour. I said I believed in the scriptures (meaning Bible, avoiding making any statement about the BoM) and I might have quoted a Bible verse that resonated with me.
It was brief, it was general, it was not exclusively Mormon, or Mormon at all, from deliberate intent on my part. I felt I could only stated what I did actually believe in (I *hated* the fake-it-til-you-make-it approach). Still, the reaction from one of the stake missionaries (who had taught me the new member classes) was “I’m so glad you’ve finally got a testimony of Joseph Smith”. I was like, say what???? He said, “Well, you just gave a testimony of Joseph Smith”. I said, “No, I gave a testimony saying I believe in God, Jesus and the scriptures”. His reply? “Well, that’s the same thing!” (I don't think he meant it literally, as in JS being Jesus or equal to, but that any testimony at all, of anything, confirms that you hold a belief in JS and the CoJCoLDS, as would be expected, I guess, by one's mere presence in that church and the fact of giving testimony in their meeting).
But still, I never gave a testimony again as I really dislike having my words misunderstood. If I could say “I believe that God exists” or “I believe that Jesus is our Saviour” and to some or all Mormons this translates into “I believe in Joseph Smith”, I would rather stay mum. Many hear what they want to hear or what they expect to hear and it’s alarming how far apart a listener’s impression and one’s intention can be.
Another aspect of testimony-bearing is the directive to stick to “pure testimony”, which consists only of these elements - “I believe that...":
*God lives
*Jesus Christ is the Saviour
*Joseph Smith *is* a prophet
*The BoM is the most correct book
*The Church is true.
This was heavily emphasized in the ward I attended (even being the subject of a talk by the MP’s wife on one occasion).
Maybe this was their way of cutting down on the travelogues, life stories, and other non-standard testimony-bearing that occurs. But how boring is it to hear an entire hour of testimonies consisting of the five favoured lines (as listed above). I could find some meaning in the sacrament part of SM (if only to sit in reflection for an hour a week) but never in the F&T Sundays. To me it was time that could have been better spent, either in hearing a good sermon or at least an interesting talk. To an outsider, true enough the testimony-bearing with accompanying tears that occurs in Mormonism is quite strange. However, it is obviously meaningful and spiritually significant to those who believe in it.
Based on my experience, I'd say your testimony-bearing may not be understood in the way you intend. It could serve to cement their own beliefs, not your intended outcome. I also have quite an aversion to cozying up to people just to get something out of them (in this case, appearing to go along with their F&T ritual but with an ulterior motive). Too, it is a strong principle, at least where I come from, that one does not "sheep steal" in this way.
The only way in which I can see that what you propose actually makes sense to you is if you believe that the HS and the "real Jesus" will somehow reach listeners through your "testimony" in some spiritual sense (with the purpose that they end up not Mormon). First, I'd ask why God can't reach them without your help, in some other more open way. Second, I'd ask if the use of a degree of fakery is the best way to go about spreading religious truth as you know it.
Perhaps you can see, without me delineating every element, how and why this type of proselytizing approach would not go over well, starting with it being condescending, disrespectful, and lacking in understanding of your intended audience, as well as dishonest and likely doomed to failure. It's lose-lose all the way around, as I see it.
So, I vote no!
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 11/25/2010 05:11PM by Nightingale.