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Date: March 01, 2012 06:59PM
So, update. I told my son to come home now, and he did. He was mad at me, and I said we need to talk about this, and I told him that I can't always do it, and I should not feel guilty or be made to feel guilty about it.
He said they were going to have to walk home, yeah right. And for the poster who said we need to let kids walk, it was a raging windy snow storm, and while the kid who lived at least 2 miles away had a path, the one that lived over 4 miles would have had to walk up and down a dark road that was slick, visibility was down, and in the dark on the bike lane. I won't let my kid walk that, it is too dangerous. So, I knew the moms would not let them do that.
Today one of the kids came home with my son and I asked him how he got home, and he was like, oh, my mom came and picked us up and took the other kid home. This was the mom at the rec center, so I'm guessing she didn't come till after 9:30, which would have pissed me off. My son's bedtime is 9, and he was safe and sound in it.
So, I will have to work on this. They did walk to the other friends today, but daylight, warmer, etc. I still worry alot. But I said "I will pick you both up at 6:30, period". So, that's it. So I will just have to be fair about it, but firm.
My son usually will take it ok if I say I can't and no, and just stay home. I go to school at night and late in the day, so he knows he has to work around it. He just thought I would be cool with leaving my schoolwork last night and driving other peoples kid through a snowstorm. He has a big heart. I don't know what I'm going to do when he starts to drive, as he will want to give everyone rides. He has 1 year, so we will have to work on that.
I remember when I was in YW. I increased my insurance coverage for the very reason I knew some girls didn't have health insurance, and I didn't want to lose everything because of an accident. I had to drive many of them around, but I didn't mind it then. One girl thought that was amazing that I would do that, but it was for her that I did. Go figure.
Oh, and NO one makes their kids wear seatbelts---definetely mormon trait!!! Drives me crazy!!
Ok, I'm done. it's really interesting to hear everyones take on this and the stories!!!