Posted by:
Suckafoo
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Date: April 21, 2012 06:08PM
I have always thought of divorce as that very last available option. I am willing to withstand a whole lot to keep it from happening. It's too easy a choice. I go along in life feeling groovy as long as I avoid too much contact with my spouse. Otherwise my life is joyous. He says things that make me feel bad. If I didn't have to hear it I could feel really good. But if I divorce my daughter who is 8 will suffer scars. Do I keep smiling? Do I try and be the positive force in this family with a spouse who thinks he is God's gift to women? I hate to say it but he goes about acting like I'm not attractive. He has done this for 12 years. The thing that bugs me is that I feel attractive. And if I lopped him off I would be happier. But I would hurt my child and break apart the family. Is it worth it just to be selfish and end it? I need to hear other experiences with this. Are your lives worse or better after divorce? I'm 49 years old. I don't need a relationship at this point I would be pretty happy without.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 04/21/2012 06:11PM by suckafoo.