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Date: May 04, 2012 09:46PM
Ok, I've been looking at my DH's family history and have been very curious about this one incident.
April 30, 1831 The first time Joseph and family came to Kirtland they lived with Isaac Morley, Lucy's father. Later "Father Morley" built a small house for them on his farm. The twins were born here [on April 30]. Lucy [Morley] and her elder sister kept house for Emma Smith while she was ill. Lucy Diantha Morley Allen reminiscence, "Joseph Smith, the Prophet," Young Woman's Journal 17: 537.
I've read enough about other girls that "helped out" at Joe's house. Later her younger sister (8 years younger, in 1831 LDM would be about 16, her younger sister, Cordelia Cox would have been about 8). In 1844 (Cordelia is now 21) this occurs:
"...In the spring of 1844, plural marriage was introduced to me by my parents from Joseph Smith, asking their consent and a request to me to be his wife. Imagine, if you can, my feeling, to be a plural wife. Something I never thought I could ever be. I knew nothing of such religion and could not accept it, neither did I then. I told Joseph I had a sweetheart; his name was Whiting, and I expected to marry him. He, however, was left by the wayside. He could not endure the persecutions and hardships. I told the Prophet I thought him a wonderful man and leader, but I wanted to marry my sweetheart.
After Joseph Smith's death, I was visited by some of his most intimate friends who knew of his request and explained to me this religion, counseling me to accept his wishes, for he now was gone and could do no more for himself. I accepted Joseph Smith's desire, and 27 January 1846, I was married to your father in the Nauvoo Temple. While still kneeling at the alter, my hand clasped in his and ready to become his third plural wife, Heber C. Kimball tapped me on the shoulder and said, "Cordelia, are you going to deprive the Prophet of his desire that you be his wife?" At that, Walter Cox said, "You may be sealed to the Prophet for eternity and I'll marry you for time." Walter was proxy for Joseph Smith, and I was sealed to him for eternity and to Walter for time. (One time when Cordelia told this story to her granddaughter, Mary Verona Cox, she said, "Verona, in eternity I want the man that was the father of my children and was a good husband and father. I lived with him and loved him.")
I want to bear my testimony, no matter by whom it is denied. The Prophet Joseph Smith taught and practiced polygamy, having five wives with whom I was acquainted. It was just as much a trial to us in those days as it would be to this people today..."
SOURCE: Autobiography of Cordelia Morley Cox. Retrieved from
http://oscox.org/fwcox/cordeliaccox.htmlMy understanding is that Cordelia's father and his wife are "adopted to" (does that mean sealed to?) BY at the same time. There are also claims by Kerry Boren about Lucy DM being a polyg wife of JS also. But Kerry Boren seems to be a bit of an unreliable source, jailed for killing his wife and accused of several JS like actions. His sources sound pretty made up to me.
Anyway, all this has always really made me wonder about JS and what he did with LDM and her elder sister while they were taking care of Emma as she was trying to bear him twins. Did he try to get some new wives here or what?