Posted by:
Raptor Jesus
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Date: May 07, 2012 10:26PM
Jesus fucking Christ piss shit fuck cock bitch.
I just got off the phone with my mother. And we had to fight over me taking the time off to find another job and get my head straight.
I'm a grown adult. And I worked incredibly hard to save up enough to quit and look for another job.
But that's not FUCKING GOOD ENOUGH!
What if I don't ever find another job EVER?
What about my long hair and beard????
No one will ever hire me because I look like a fucking hippy!!!!
And what will the neighbors think and the rest of the family think????
Suddenly the son that was doing so awesome and had a great job that was really hard to get is such a FUCKING FAILURE for coming back to his parents' basement for ALL OF THREE MONTHS!
And I'm an EXMO at that!!!!
How dare I????? For shame!!!!
Well, guess who just got the full brunt of my godly wrath????
That's right. My mother.
I love her to death. But if you think you've seen my fury on this board, you have no idea what I unleashed just now.
I told my mother that I loved her and she hurt my feelings, and now it was time for me to hurt hers.
And then I systematically kicked her to the floor and eviscerated her.
She was very concerned that I all this was a "surprise" and very different than what we have talked about.
And I said, "Why wouldn't it be a surprise? You and dad are very concerned about me but you can't handle my feelings. And, frankly, you aren't very supportive. Here I am telling you that I need you and support and you are concerned about MY HAIR, MY BEARD AND WHAT WILL THE REST OF THE FAMILY AND NEIGHBORS THINK???
WHY WOULD I SHARE ANYTHING WITH YOU WHEN YOU ARE ONLY CONCERNED ABOUT OUTWARD APPEARANCES?"
There was a lot more. I really took her to task. Yes, I shouldn't have answered after all that whiskey, but I did. And she shared her honest opinions and concerns and I did mine.
She was concerned if I came to visit about "comments" about their "choices."
And I said, "Mother I know you don't agree with my life choices and I don't agree with yours. But we've both been very amicable lately. And I'm taking this time regardless of your feelings and concerns. Now I can either come see you, or I don't have to. I didn't call you for a handout. I called you because I thought you'd want to be here for me as I get my life in order. But I don't have to do that with you.
In fact, I don't even have to come out to Utah at all. I can look for a job out here in California all the same. Now do you want to see me or not?"
Then she started to back down. I told her that I understood her concern about not having a job lined up as I quit. I told her that I understood full well that our family doesn't believe in that. That they would rather bottle everything up inside until they collapse at a family function and do irreparable damage to their heart.
That really cut her. But it's fucking true.
I have a stable job. but not a "good" job. It's cost me my health - and while it didn't destroy my marriage - it sure as shit contributed to the downfall.
And for what?
What do I have to show for it?
I wrote a book in spite of it.
No house. No children. No bullshit American dream.
The corporation takes and takes and takes and takes. It demands all and gives a fraction of a hundredth of a percent in return.
Goddamnit.