Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: June 08, 2012 05:38AM
I thank you, too, for your great story! Good point about the closed doors. We are summoned into an invasive "tithing settlement" in the bishop's office--yet the cult never opens their books to us. Other churches publish their financials online, for all to see.
I am still unable to separate the cult from my family, but I blame my family for that. They took orders directly from my GA relative, and the other leaders. That included keeping up the phony facade of being the perfect Mormon family. We were dysfunctional. Women were second-class citizens. My brother was mentally ill, and my parents denied it. In those days, Mormons did not believe in psychology. My brother was allowed to abuse me, without any punishment, and my parents did nothing to protect me. There was no love. I left home a week after high school graduation, forever.
Thanks for this thread. It is interesting to know that some others returned to Mormonism. I did, too, when I was divorced and raising my children alone, with no support. I felt that my children would benefit from the Mormon church, so we became active again, after being away for several years. My ex had just moved us to a new and strange place, in Utah. We needed the instant friendship. We were in a ward from Hell, too, and the priesthood leaders physically beat my boys, for sleeping in and missing meetings. The bishop's older hideous son tried to molest my little girl. My kids told me about all this one Saturday, and we came to the conclusion this cult was not of God. Duh. Then we found RFM and the TRUTH.
I do blame the cult for these abusive behaviors. Abusers like the bishop's son and my brother are condoned in the LDS church! My brother bore his testimony every month without fail, and he manipulated others into feeling sorry for him. The bishop's son went on a mission, and was elder's quorum president. The men who kicked and threw my sons around were promoted to stake president, mission president, and bishop. I can't separate the Mormon cult from the actions of its members. These people (and my family) are BRAINWASHED.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/08/2012 05:45AM by forestpal.