Posted by:
rainwriter
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Date: June 20, 2012 12:41AM
I grew up with my mom being very vocal about a conversation she had with her bishop when she was pregnant with me. Being a single expectant mother, no job (some mental issues that prevented her from working), a partier, definitely not active at all, her mother just dying... a couple of trusted and good tbm friends suggested she talk to the bishop to see if the church could/would help with anything while she was pregnant and just after I was born. One of those friends (old enough to be her mom, a good mentor) went with her to the meeting and the bishop told her that they would only help if she agreed to put the baby up for adoption so that it could be sealed to parents in the covenent and go to the highest degree of glory. Obviously she said no, and the sister/friend supported her in that decision, but it was a sore spot for her for a long time as well as me growing up.