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dajeffman
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Date: July 17, 2012 12:06AM
This is a continued thread.....
from "Apparently, I'm not sincere enough to repent"
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,565327Wow. Thank you all. You all have wonderful insights, full of perspective. I can't thank you enough for taking the time out of your day, to respond (to yes a minor, 17 still), over what kinda seems like small troubles.
I would specifically like to thank Mia for the helpful comments she gave.
1) My parents are very TBM, and my mom mentions a mission just about everyday. It drives me insane. I don't think I'll be able to just "back out" on this one. "If you live under my roof ur gonna follow my rules" kinda thing. If i need to talk to the bishop i'm just gonna have to do it because I have no where else to go.
2) The bishop isn't some pedophile. He doesn't ever ask for specifics, and i never tell him. I honestly think he's just concerned with my spirituality, but you're all so right in the sense that he has no idea what he's doing. He's actually not that bad of a guy imo.
This is actually perfect timing. Youth Conference is the 19th. I'm certain it wont be fun............... but during that time i will "realize how important it is to repent,"
and how i "sincerely want to devote my life to the savior and my repentance." I'll pull some repentance scripture passages out of my ass and claim it helped me realize how important this decision is and how i want to take the sacrament again. Say that I want to respect woman for what they are and not their appearance, (which is true) and i'll also include i've been talking to a crush in the ward about it and want to "better myself for her." Say I've been praying and fasting to get an answer from the big man up top but it hasn't come yet. I'll pull just about all the tricks out of the book (except the reporting him to the police. thatll just make things worse. sorry xyz) That is when i will ask for a special blessing and thank him. (fantastic idea!) I'll say the planets aligned and God is lookin out for me.
The following interview after that i will come with a huge smile on my face and say that i felt the spirit so strongly reveal to me that i was forgiven of my sins! the thought of getting out of this is actually very exciting. :D
and crying... that'll be the nail in the coffin if i can pull it off.
If none of that works.. I'll keep you guys posted, and definitely use the "badge of honor" totally trash talking about him behind his back. I don't agree with gossiping, but i feel this would be an appropriate justification. It's so nice to listen to people who actually THINK.
My last resort would prolly be something like going in and saying "all of this was a hoax, to see if u'd get a spiritual confirmation on something that wasn't true. I never had a problem with porn, but i wanted to see if the Lord would tell u. I thought i was gonna be able to see the Lord's work first hand, but it never happened. I don't wanna talk anymore...especially with someone who isn't inspired." What do you think??
Ohh kind of off topic, but can any of you sorta "break my testimony" and explain why i would get very emotional talking about the atonement (and sometimes still do even tho i kno it's bs 0_o??). idk why, but it's kinda my last thread hanging with this church, and i want it gone. It just always struck me to the core every time. care to explain?
Again, thanks RfM!
- Jeff